To Join or Not to Join

When someone decides to join a blog site, etc. as a reader/follower that is most appreciated and it leaves me, as I am sure most of you all, honored. Honored that you all find what is written here of value. I am glad, happy and excited when someone joins the site by their own volition. This is important since so many others feel that they can assume one is in want of their stuff.

I am also honored when someone adds a link to my blogs and web sites so others can find their way to my blogger, etc. This is something special to me and I thank everyone who does this. If you link you are not asked to gain my permission. Since it is an honor I feel asking me is not necessary.

Yet, if you add me to your space, site or blog to include such social networks that push with out my approval notifications, etc. to my spaces then I would ask kindly that you remove me from those areas until I can visit and make the decision for myself.

I just want to make the choice myself and find it a bit inconvenient and maybe even rude for someone to assume that I would want this to occur. You may find that if I do visit your spaces that I will find it convenient for me to join and receive notifications. If you want me to view your spaces before I look at them on my own simply send me an email with the link, I will happily stop by and see for myself - and join if I find it to my liking.

Please do me the courtesy to allow me to decide on my own. If not, don't be surprised to find your account blocked until I can vet the situation out for myself. I am approaching my winter years and am a bit old fashioned in this so thanks for your kindness and thanks for joining the spaces I run.

Kindest Regards,

Charles James
Martial Philosopher, etc.

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